2689 - Marc Godin: "I've been excluded from "cool …" - disabled.social
I've been excluded from "cool kids'" groups my whole life, and so it's given me a bit of perspective* on blocklists and sometimes it's 100% clear to me when a person is upset because it's the literal first time they weren't by default included in a group they want to be in. But look: as a guy-shaped person, I had to accept that not everyone will feel safe around me, even if I feel sure that I'm a safe guy-shaped person. That isn't their fault, it's the fault of patriarchy. As a white perso...